What Painful Intercourse May Mean for You

Dyspareunia, or painful intercourse, refers to persistent or recurring pain during or after sexual activity. It can occur for a variety of reasons—both physical and emotional—and may affect women at any stage of life, including before, during, or after pregnancy, and through menopause. This condition is common and treatable, and you don’t have to suffer in silence. At Advanced Women’s Care, we offer compassionate, expert support to help women regain comfort and confidence in their intimate relationships.

Common Causes

Dyspareunia can have many underlying causes. Some of the most common include:

  • Vaginal dryness (especially after childbirth or during menopause)

  • Infections, such as yeast infections or urinary tract infections (UTIs)

  • Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)

  • Endometriosis

  • Vaginismus (involuntary muscle spasms)

  • Childbirth-related trauma, including perineal tears or scarring

  • Irritation from products like soaps, condoms, or lubricants

  • Hormonal changes, such as those in pregnancy or menopause

  • Emotional stress, anxiety, or past trauma

Sometimes, more than one factor contributes to discomfort, and identifying the source is key to successful treatment.

Symptoms

The location and nature of the pain provide important clues about its origin. Dyspareunia may cause a variety of symptoms depending on the underlying issue, such as:

Diagnosis

Being open and honest with your provider is key to identifying the root cause. To diagnose dyspareunia, your healthcare provider will take a detailed medical history, including any sexual health concerns, hormonal changes, and emotional factors. A pelvic exam may be performed to check for signs of infection, inflammation, or anatomical abnormalities. Other diagnostic tools might include:

Treatment Options

Treatment depends on the specific cause and may include:

  • Lubricants or vaginal moisturizers for dryness

  • Topical estrogen creams for menopause-related thinning

  • Antibiotics or antifungals if an infection is present

  • Pelvic floor physical therapy for muscle-related pain

  • Counseling or therapy for emotional or psychological factors

  • Lifestyle adjustments, such as switching soaps or using hypoallergenic products

  • Hormone therapy if appropriate for your age or stage of life

Your care plan should be personalized and may involve a combination of treatments.

Take control of your health

with Advanced Women's Care

Dyspareunia is a common but often underreported condition that can deeply impact emotional and physical well-being. At Advanced Women’s Care, we are committed to helping women find relief through comprehensive evaluation and compassionate care. If intercourse has become painful for you, there are answers—and there is help. You deserve a healthy, fulfilling intimate life.